There is a need to have dirty things to say to your boyfriend to turn him on. Making dirty talk part of your sexual advancement strategy will get it there quickly. Participating means you are comfortable with your sexuality and can reach new heights. You will be better placed to fulfill your man’s sexual desires and get him to reveal some of his hidden sexual desires as well. There is a guideline on how to go about it.
There are certain tricks that apply to dirty talk. Just like other areas of your life, there are ways you can make it better. The things that worked in your previous relationship may not work in your current one. In your current relationship, there must be something which you would have readily done only recently, but cannot bring yourself to repeat them.
There are those things that rarely change. Communicating to your partner what you like and encouraging them to keep doing it is a timeless trick.
You need to be original. Copying what is normally portrayed in adult films does not put across a sexy image. Such a trial can deflate a man’s enthusiasm. You will come across as ridiculous. Say things only you can.
You should use a unique tone. Dirty talk has more to do with how you are saying things, and less to do with what you may be saying. You, therefore, need to establish your signature tone, and refine it with time. Incorporate some sighs, moans, high-pitched shrieks, low whispers, and such. It will keep things interesting when he receives a variety of sexy voices.
Get more colorful with your vocabulary. During this time, you can sue dirty words freely. Both of you are deep in the throes of passion, it will not be out of place.
Dirty talk should be practiced frequently. Even in his absence, take the time to practice. He does not have to be there in person. Think of him being there and imagine how you would talk to him, and the things you would say. Your effort will bear fruit with time, making you proficient.
You also need to establish some boundaries. There are things you are not comfortable saying. The start of your dirty talk agreement should entail such a discussion. It will be better when you both know what works and what doesn’t, and no arguments will occur in future. Keep in mind though that there may come a time when something offensive is said unintentionally. Do not take it too personally.
Regularly talking dirty among couples is a fun way to explore and enjoy their sexual union. Make a point of always remembering to adhere to your set rules, so that no fights arise that could spoil what would have been a potentially wonderful thing. Always have these tips at hand and you shall manage to make your man feel great, and feel good when he performs how you want him to.